Looking around, I feel everybody is immersed in problems.
It is problems all the way!
Either it is about studies, or frustration of placements, or being placed and workplace glass ceilings or about being single or not being in a relationship (yes, not a repetition, they seem to be two very different things all together, trust me on it 
) being married, or being married and unable to cope, or being in a relationship and then trying to adjust and rebelling for it seems to be just like arranged marriages, or conditioning the mind to get married to shut the society from blaring into your ears, or it is about egos clashing in any circle, not ready to let go, friendship breakups … what not!
Do they create their own problems due to peer pressure! I find many of them fake, personally because there is no need to feel insecure because your best friend is getting married, or your best friend is single or you best friend is pursing studies rather than continuing with a job or vice versa!
And if as a person you are not anxious about anything by nature, or do not show it on the face or talk about it, then you have no problems at all!! There are ways of dealing with them, without harming your self. I believe there are solutions to most of the problems, open your eyes and look around…
One of the famous causes for jealousy problems, I’ve observed is when one has a strong emotional support system from back home or in your friends or in your spouses which brings about a security in your activities, what in other words can be called being grounded! I can understand the initial burst of jealousy, however, how do you continue being jealous.
There’s always a give and take, this need not be adjustment or the famous compromise… so if you yearn for security and solace, then it comes with something called trust. Just like the Constitution cites, every right has a duty, they form a couple in lay tongue, a binary when discussed as part of western philosophy 
One needs to trust another for the other to give you that sense of security. Now if you do not trust somebody, or somebody to give you some good advice, then why walk that way in the first place and then crib? Caveat, just to try trust do not trust a busy body.
My problem is why can’t you deal with your problems! Repeating them over and over again, does not solve them at all, it’s venting them out, the way I’m doing now… what a relief Venting is good, but then when there are solutions, however, remotely practical they may be, why can’t you work towards them? But No! They are ignored as if they did not exist! And the repetition continues!
It’s wonderful to be competitive in spirit but for the number of problems in your life, well there is some major problem here…
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I like what you said .. yes find the problems and then deal with them .. putting them aside and brushing past by them doesnot make them go away the ywill come back again …
Totally. deal with them, but certainly it is not an asset to have problems, in quality or quantity, Yes, and solve them why keep them in the ladder to look at it often..
Actually, some people do not want to solve any problem.
Once the problem is solved, they can’t torment others again no? And besides, problems are quite difficult to find these days…
AJ,
haaa haaa
oh yes, as they say, striving for the goal is better than reaching it, the journey is what counts …
Lovely perspectives with a pinch of satire
Welcome to PNA and cya around
Very thought provoking post,perfectly required for my current mindset,but dear what if the problems are something beyond the solutions you could apply or think of?
Genuine problems, need to be tackled, Shree.
We can cry and get angry over it, rant and vent, for how long…it still remains at the end of the day as a huge bulge somewhere.
Huggggggggs girl, tk
Whatever the problem is,
….We are lucky to have this space to vent it out..
Thank God for Blogs and bloggers .. to vent and hear
Facing the problem is the best option in the given circumstances, however, as AJ has remarked, the journey is so spicy for some, they love the process… and in these cases, most of them are made-up,… therefore, the rant and the venting…
If you don’t deal with the problem, eventually it will come up and smack you in the face!
Totally agree Mary… procrastinating a problem does not work.. and so does faking it, unfortunately.
oh some just love to wallow in self pity and crib.